This mom is a real heroine! An example for everyone!
Bullying at school is one of the most terrible problems of our time. Children can be violent, especially teenagers, especially if their parents do not see the problem, and teachers ignore the pain of others. Parents often turn a blind eye to this, they are too busy with work and their problems, they believe that there is nothing wrong with problems at school, let the children solve their own problems. But this is serious.
Children can get psychological trauma and even injury for life. This is the story of a brave mother who will become an example for many. Natalia Tsymbalenko announced to the whole country about the harassment of her son and about the methods of solving the problem. She did not ignore her son’s problem and stood up for him. The woman found out that her child was being humiliated and solved this issue. Her son’s name is Peter, in middle school he changed schools and entered the gymnasium. The guy was unlucky: there was a group of boys in his class who consider themselves cool. They bullied other children.
The newcomer immediately became a victim for them. Mom enrolled her son in fencing and hand-to-hand combat so that the guy could protect himself. This brought results: they gradually began to lag behind the boy, but other children were tortured even more. They took away their personal belongings, threw bottles of urine into backpacks, tore off the guys’ pants, took a picture and published it on the network of Petya’s best friend, Misha, divorced for money. The guys were forced to buy a vape, because cool guys smoke vape «When Petya and several of the same boys went to the class teacher for help, she did not interfere.
At most, she conducted conversations on the topic «let’s live amicably», and in conversations with parents she reflected that «children do not like snitches», «we need to temper our character», «we need to find an approach to comrades». Then Natalia began to solve the problem personally. She gathered the parents of the affected children. Only three decided to write a statement. Then Natalia gathered the parents of the hooligans.
But they did not want to solve the problem and denied the hooligan behavior of their children. Others were shouting: «You can’t prove anything!» The class teacher became hysterical; she realized that an active mom would not give a descent and she would have problems. Then the teacher tried to abandon the classroom guidance. «I have collected concrete evidence: the correspondence of the participants of the story with the vape and the account of a classmate, where it was clear that he was not only a fan of the groups selling vape, but also sells them himself; photo bags for Petya and screenshots of the account where these photos were posted.»
But the court and the prosecutor’s office did not frighten the parents; they thought that mom was bluffing and would not go that far. But one day, all the hooligans were visited by employees of the juvenile affairs department. The situation has changed dramatically: children and their parents began to behave quietly and peacefully. They did not think that such responsibility could come for jokes.
«No one expected that I would not participate in the «parental battles» and find out whose son should «wash better, maybe then they will be friends with him,» but I would go the fine bureaucratic way of letters and complaints. Everyone instantly learned the culture: they stop those who want to draw photo jars. Bullying in my son’s classroom has stopped. or for a long time – we’ll see.” This is an actual problem in modern schools. Bullying succeeds thanks to ignoring adults! Teachers do not want to resolve conflicts, parents ignore the pain of their children, others do not notice that their children are sick… This problem needs to be solved! Be attentive to your children, no matter who they are, victims or aggressors, both options traumatize the child’s psyche and lead to serious consequences.
