“Where am I supposed to sleep? I’m taking this room!” my mother-in-law declared as she carried her suitcases into my apartment.
“And you, dear, don’t go acting like you’re in charge here. This isn’t your office,” my mother-in-law, Antonina Petrovna, said in a sickly sweet voice, with that same icy undertone that always made Alina’s jaw tighten. “Vitalik and I talked it over and decided that this room will be mine now. There’s no reason an elderly woman should have to sleep on the couch in the living room—my back, you know, isn’t made of iron. And there’s more light in here too—perfect for my seedlings.”
Alina froze, a box still in her hands. It did not just contain things—inside were children’s toys she had lovingly collected for the future… the one she and her husband had dreamed of for so long. Or had they already stopped dreaming?
“What do you mean, ‘talked it over’?” Alina slowly set the box down on the floor. Everything inside her tightened, as if a taut string had suddenly snapped. “Vitalik?”
She turned to her husband. Vitaly—her Vitalik, with whom she had spent five years building their “paradise in a hut,” which had later turned into a spacious three-room apartment in the city center—stood by the window, staring with exaggerated focus at the garbage truck in the yard below. His shoulders, which had always seemed so dependable, now looked slumped and helpless.
“Well… Mom, maybe not so bluntly…” he muttered without turning around.
“And what exactly did I say wrong?” Antonina Petrovna spread her hands, and her heavy gold bracelets clinked like chains. “I’m his mother! I raised him, got him on his feet! And now, when my blood pressure is jumping like crazy, I’m supposed to put up with discomfort? Alinka is young, she’ll survive. Besides, you don’t have a nursery yet anyway… and, it seems, you never will.”
Those last words, tossed out as if in passing, struck home with perfect aim. Alina felt a burning lump rise in her throat. The subject of children was the most painful one of all. And her mother-in-law knew it perfectly well. She knew—and never missed her target, all while hiding behind a caring smile.
“Antonina Petrovna,” Alina’s voice trembled, but she straightened up. “This apartment was bought with my parents’ money and my own savings from before the marriage. Vitalik here…”
“Oh, here we go!” her mother-in-law cut in, rolling her eyes theatrically. She sank into the rocking chair that, incidentally, she had brought over a week earlier without asking anyone. “‘Mine,’ ‘yours’! We’re family, dear! In a family, everything is shared. And children’s duty is to take care of their parents. Or didn’t your mother teach you to respect your elders?”
Alina looked at her husband. She waited. She waited for him to turn around now, slam his palm against the windowsill, and say, “Mom, enough! This is our home, and we’ll decide for ourselves!” Like in those love stories they used to watch together. But Vitaly said nothing. He just picked at the rubber seal on the window with his finger—and stayed silent.
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“And you, sweetheart, don’t go ordering people around here like you’re in your office,” her mother-in-law, Antonina Petrovna, said in a honeyed voice, though it carried that same metallic scrape that usually made Alina’s jaw clench. “Vitalik and I have decided that this room will be mine now. It’s not right for a mother to be cramped on the sofa in the living room, you know. My back isn’t made of iron. And the light is better here too—good for the seedlings.”
Alina froze, a box in her hands. The box held more than just things—inside were children’s toys she had been carefully collecting for the future… the future she and her husband had been waiting for so eagerly. Or were they no longer waiting for it?
“What do you mean, ‘decided’?” Alina slowly set the box down on the floor. Something inside her snapped, like an overtightened guitar string breaking. “Vitalik?”
She turned to her husband. Vitaly—her Vitalik, the man she had spent five years building that “paradise in a hut” with, which had later turned into a spacious three-room apartment in the city center—was standing by the window, making an intense show of being fascinated by the garbage truck passing below. His shoulders, usually so dependable, now looked hunched and pathetic.
“Well… Mom, maybe you didn’t have to be so blunt…” he mumbled without turning around.
“What’s wrong with that?” Antonina Petrovna threw up her hands, her heavy gold bracelets clinking like shackles. “I’m his mother! I raised him, fed him! And now, when my blood pressure is jumping like crazy, I’m supposed to humiliate myself? Your Alinka is young, she’ll manage. Besides, you don’t even have a nursery yet… and it doesn’t look like you will anytime soon.”
The last phrase was tossed out casually, but it hit the mark exactly. Alina felt a hot lump rise in her throat. The subject of children was painful. The most painful of all. And her mother-in-law knew it. She knew and struck at it deliberately, with a smile, under the mask of concern.
“Antonina Petrovna,” Alina’s voice trembled, but she forced herself to straighten up. “This apartment was bought with my parents’ money and my own savings from before the marriage. Vitalik here—”
“Oh, here we go!” her mother-in-law cut in, rolling her eyes theatrically. She plopped down into the rocking chair—which, incidentally, she had also brought over without asking a week earlier. “‘Mine,’ ‘yours’! We’re family, dear! Family! And in a family, everything is shared. And it’s the duty of children to care for their parents. Or didn’t your mother teach you to respect your elders?”
Alina looked at her husband. She waited. She waited for him to turn around, slam his fist on the windowsill, and say, “Mom, enough! This is our home, and we’ll decide for ourselves!” Like in those love movies they used to watch. But Vitaly said nothing. He picked at the window seal with his finger and stayed silent.
In that moment, Alina understood everything. The puzzle pieces fell into place. The strange evening phone calls, when Vitalik would disappear into the bathroom “to wash his hands” for half an hour. The disappearing sums from their joint account (“Alin, I have to fix the car, the parts got more expensive”). The sudden visits from his mother, which kept getting longer and more brazen.
“Vitaly,” Alina said his name as though tasting sour milk. “Look at me.”
He turned reluctantly. Cowardly little sparks darted in his eyes. Fear. There was animal fear of his mother there and… irritation at his wife. Because she had not stayed silent. Because she had created a problem.
“Alin, honestly,” he began in the ingratiating tone Alina hated most of all, “Mom is sick. She needs care. And the room is empty. Is it really such a big deal to you? Later… someday… we’ll work something out.”
“Someday?” Alina repeated quietly. “You promised we’d renovate this room by autumn. You promised we’d start preparing for IVF. And now you’re giving this room to your mother? Forever?”
“Why forever?” Antonina Petrovna cut in, adjusting the shawl on her shoulders. “I’ll live here while I’m alive, and then we’ll see. Maybe the two of you will get divorced anyway—you’re still young.”
She said it with such light, hopeful ease that Alina felt cold all over.
“Is that what you want?” Alina asked, looking straight into her mother-in-law’s watery, merciless eyes. “For us to get divorced?”
“I want my son to be happy!” Antonina Petrovna snapped. “And with you, he walks around like a drowned rat. Skinny, always at work, can’t even cook a proper pot of borscht. Not a wife, just a misunderstanding. I told Vitalik before the wedding, ‘Watch out, son, that apple’s worm-eaten.’”
Alina shifted her gaze to her husband. He flushed, but not with anger at his mother—with embarrassment that his private conversations had come out into the open.
“You discussed that with her?” Alina whispered. “You discussed me with her? My flaws? Our problems?”
“Come on, Alin, she’s my mother…” Vitaly spread his hands as if that explained everything. “Who else am I supposed to talk to? You’re always busy, with your reports and projects. Mom always listens, always gives advice.”
“Advice?” Alina gave a bitter little laugh. “What did she advise you, Vitalik? To take my car keys away ‘for safety’? To transfer the dacha into her name ‘to pay less tax’? I remember that conversation a month ago. You said it was your idea. But it was hers, wasn’t it?”
Silence filled the room. Thick and sticky like a spiderweb. Antonina Petrovna stopped rocking. Her face sharpened like a predator’s.
“Don’t you touch the dacha!” she suddenly shrieked, dropping her mask of refined ladyhood. “The dacha is sacred! Vitalik worked there all summer! He has every right!”
“Vitalik worked there?” Alina felt the anger inside her begin to boil—the cleansing kind that burns fear away. “Vitalik grilled шашлыки with his friends while I weeded the garden beds and painted the house! And it was my money that bought the paint, by the way!”
“Money, money!” her mother-in-law shouted, jumping to her feet. “That’s all we ever hear from you! Money-hungry! You’ve latched onto the boy with a death grip! The apartment is hers, is it? If it weren’t for Vitalik, you’d be growing mold from loneliness in here! Who would even want someone like you, you overworked sausage?”
“Mom, quieter, the neighbors will hear,” Vitaly squeaked nervously.
“Let them hear!” Antonina Petrovna raged. She felt strong. She saw that her son was on her side—silently, cowardly, but on her side. “Let them know what kind of snake has made herself comfortable here! As a matter of fact, I’ve already moved most of my things in. The suitcases are out in the hallway. And my dresser is coming tomorrow with the movers. So accept it, dear. I’m the mistress of this house now. The senior woman of the family! And you—you’re just here to fetch and carry.”
Alina slowly walked out into the hallway. Sure enough, two enormous suitcases bound with tape stood against the wall, along with stacks of boxes. Her mother-in-law had not simply come to ask for the room—she had already moved in. This was a planned occupation. A blitzkrieg.
Alina looked at those suitcases and remembered. She remembered how, three years earlier, when they had just gotten married, Antonina Petrovna used to come to their rented one-room apartment and check the dust on top of the шкаф with a white handkerchief. How she had “accidentally” thrown away Alina’s favorite mug because it was “too gloomy.” How she would call Vitaly at the exact moment they sat down to dinner and keep him on the phone for forty minutes, complaining about imaginary illnesses. It had never been care. It was a war for control. And Vitaly was not the trophy, no. He was the weapon in his mother’s hands, the one she used to strike at Alina.
“All right, then,” Alina said as she returned to the room. Her voice rang like steel. “Vitaly, you have a choice. Right now. Either you take these suitcases, take your mother by the arm, and the two of you go back to her apartment. Or—”
“Or what?” her mother-in-law interrupted mockingly, folding her hands over her ample chest. “You’ll throw out your own husband? Into the street?”
“Or I call the police,” Alina finished, without looking at her mother-in-law, boring her gaze into her husband. “And I file a report for unlawful entry. You’re registered here, Vitalik, yes. But you have no ownership rights. And your mother is nobody here. An outsider. A private citizen. She can only be here with my consent. And I do not consent. And I never will.”
Vitaly went pale. He knew this tone in his wife’s voice. Rarely, very rarely, when she was pushed to the edge, the daughter of her father—a retired colonel—awoke in her.
“Alin, what are you doing? Why the police?” he muttered, taking a step toward her. “It’s Mom… where are we supposed to go now? It’s already evening. Let’s talk tomorrow, with fresh heads…”
“No tomorrow!” Alina stepped back, not letting him touch her. “I put up with this for three years. Three years I tried to be a good daughter-in-law. I swallowed insults, I turned a blind eye to your gossip behind my back, I gave her gifts that she passed on to the neighbors. Enough. I want to live in my own home. Alone. Well, with my husband. But apparently I don’t have a husband. I have a mama’s boy who still hasn’t cut the umbilical cord by the age of forty.”
“You little bitch!” Antonina Petrovna gasped in outrage. “Vitalik, do you hear her? She’s insulting me! Right in front of me! Do something! Be a man!”